When the world starts caving in on us, everyone needs someone to talk to. I have had this experience several times lately and have been so lucky to have great friends and parents to turn to for guidance. But when our students and children are in these situations, who is it they turn to? Usually the mom and dad, right? No? Then who is it that they go to when they need a listening ear? A best friend? Or maybe just anyone who will listen?
In Proverbs, Solomon encourages us to continually seek wisdom. And while parents may be full of wisdom, they aren’t always the first people our students choose to run to. Most of the time, unless we have established a good line of communication, they feel too awkward to try and talk to their parents.
So what do we do about this?
Well maybe, as the relationships with their parents begin to change and grow, we need to help our teenagers find someone else who can be that voice of wisdom in their lives. And in this, finding that new voice could mean that the students can offer their parents some peace of mind. Because while their parents may not be hearing everything, someone is, and that someone cares for this student and the choices they are making.
I first hand know how important this is. I was blessed to have great youth pastors when I was growing up that I have maintained a relationship with into my college years. And they still are there any time I need them, to help guide me. Also, I have an amazing friend who is always there to encourage me. Although they don’t have too much experience, they always try and find something from the Bible to help me through my tough times.
Bottom Line: When your parents are no longer the primary voice speaking into your life, you need someone else speaking into your life with wisdom.